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Learn 3 Business Tips from 2 Wise Horses and 1 Smart Ass

Before you say “neigh” to the idea of accepting business tips from friendly equine, consider the concept of “Edutainment”. At the intersection of education and entertainment forces come together to make your life enjoyable. Keep in mind, wisdom can be found in some of the most unceremonious of places. I’ve never personally sought out business advice from animals. However, as of late, business tips have been flowing while I’m spending time with these mighty mentors. Stay with me, will ya?

1) Our Leadership Affects Actions

We’ve all heard about the proverbial carrot or stick motivators. I’ve been experiencing this first hand as I work two horses in our round pen. There’s many lessons these two wises horses are sharing. Let’s focus on the greatest current standouts. My leadership and energy affects their trust. Their past experiences precondition certain reactions. It’s my responsibility to guide us toward a happy desired outcome.

Learn business tips from a horse

I want to liken the two horse to possible clients or employees. Let’s take Bear for example. He was born on the ranch property. We met the day he was born. I’ve fed, cared for and loved him. When I suggest he do something, he does it with the desire to please. My leadership has been established because of a developed relationship. He’s grown to know, like and trust me. When we get into the ring he’s ready to conduct “business”. After business we revel in the accomplishment– usually with snuggles and extra scratches.

Then there’s Bentley. He’s a sturdy, no-nonsense horse. He likes to move his feet. He works because he’s super smart, came into my life well-trained and is task-oriented. Don’t let him fool you though, he’s highly inclined toward grazing on grass. If I don’t lead him, he will lead me. In the round pen he’s taught me to anticipate what to do next, how to do it, and to do it well.

I must be consistent in my messaging with Bentley. I cannot slack off. He’s really an incredible consultant! Good clients or employees do just that. Like Bentley, they keep us on our toes. Their abilities and direction causes us to rise up and become better. As we stay tuned into developing our own skills, character and vision, we gain their respect. It may take some time to establish this respect, yet I believe it’s worth it.

Learn business tips from a horse

2) Dedication and patience bring satisfaction

In the round pen, skill and understanding is acquired. It doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time for the trainer and the horse to grasp the work. It requires a step-by-step process.

At times it is clumsy. What’s not working well is magnified in the round pen. When corrections are made and things are running smoothly there’s a sense of satisfaction. It may not be total success, but there’s satisfaction in the progress.

The concept rings true in business. Although we have yet to experience a complete windfall of cash flow we can smile about gaining traction. This satisfaction gives us the drive to stay dedicated to the work. Patience and personal development blossoms as we continue to grow our skill. Two very wise horses have taught me that it’s better to focus on gratifying work rather than instant gratification.

As an entrepreneur I’ve learned to stay the course until breakthrough happens. I’ve learned to lean in and listen to what my customers need, want or desire. I don’t always hit the nail on the head. In fact, sometime I miss it all together. What I have come to relish is that the process– the pursuit of happiness is as delightful as listening to thundering hooves racing across a wild open field.

3) The Looking Zone

Looking Zone business tips from Dr Paige Hunter

We have a real character who lives on the ranch. He’s a miniature rescue donkey. We named him Don Quixote after Spanish author, Miguel’s Cervantes’ famous book, Don Quixote de La Mancha.

You see the character in this book is much like our own donkey. He doesn’t necessarily see the world for what it is. He prefers to pine away for taller, unreachable mares. He prefers to imagine that he is living out a knightly story when in fact he’s a witty, yet wise simpleton. Suffice it to say I admire his zest of adventure.

At times, Don Quixote comes across as finicky and non-committal. Let me explain. Recently we needed to change his food because our local feed store explained the food we had been serving him had recently come into question. Immediately we changed the food to protect our noble little steed.

Stubbornly, he rejected the change. He dug his hooves in and backed away from higher quality food all because it looked and smelled different. At first I was furious with little ingrate but then I looked for the lesson. 🙂

What this vertically challenged wise ass taught me is that he was not in the looking zone. He wasn’t ready for change. And so he munched on knee high sweet grass for five days straight. For five days he sulked and wagged his sorry little tail like Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh. He wanted different results but wasn’t ready to take the risk on trying something different.

On the sixth day Don Quixote approached the fence braying as I began feeding the horses. He was looking through the fence. He was telling me “I’m NOW in the looking zone.” I interpreted that he’d decided to try out his new grains and minerals. And what do you know? He seized the opportunity. He even gave the happy tail wave of approval.

Timing is everything!

Don Quixote leaves us with an insightful business tip. Understand some customers simply aren’t in the looking zone– yet. Perhaps it’s because they are resistant or challenged with change. Perhaps they are just needing to work up their appetite for a little something different. The important tip is to be consistent with what you are offering. We never know when the offer will be enthusiastically accepted.

Business tips from Donkey and Dr Paige

What’s on your mind? In the comments below share with us any excellent business tips you’ve received– from man, woman or beast. 🙂

3 Voices You’ll Want to Avoid as An Entrepreneur

As an entrepreneur who lives an untraditional life I’ve learned that listening to the right voices can make or break my personal plan for success. If our desire is to live a life that’s uncommonly good, decisions need to be made.

There are voices out there yapping like a tiny disgruntled Chihuahua. Our best work happens when we listen to the passion within us and step forward into our purposeful work. Listening and acting on our internal leadership, and shutting down the yappers, well meaning or not, is how we seize our greatest calling.

If you’ve ever veered off the path of normality to create a new reality (and I’m sure you have) ask yourself these questions.

Were you met with some opposition from loved ones? Acquaintances? Possibly even strangers?

Let’s lead our self and our vision or someone else will decide for us. What would you rather have? Others’ voices sending you marching orders or you marching to the beat of your own unique drum? Go ahead. Answer the question, you rebel. 😉

Voice 1: But statistics show that 95% of businesses fail.

As harsh at it seems, it’s people that fail. Yes, we the people fail to run the business properly. Some of us run it as a hobby. Some of us run it by sheer ignorance or ineptitude. And, others of us run on limited resources so it never quite gets the lift off it deserves.

There’s always a combination of circumstances. Let’s be wise and toss out some questions. Was a strategy put into place? Was a demand for a product or service established? How about the ongoing skill development of the entrepreneur? Lastly, and not at all inclusively, beyond making money why was the business established in the first place?

Entrepreneurial opportunities

Today’s world boasts opportunity! Starting and running a business has never been easier. With a click of a mouse, payment services are set up via the Internet. Free email accounts are in plenty. Inexpensive web services and free marketing materials are all at our fingertips.

The cards are stacked up in our favor to succeed. We simply need focus with a strategy applying the right methods to the audience who wants, needs or desires our services or products.

Voice 2: In order to be successful you really should do this.

We have the choice to tune in or tune out to the voices pushing the shoulds. Not all success plans are the same. For example, for years I was told I should drive a fancier, flashier car to “show” that I’m making serious bank even when I wasn’t. It felt slimy and incongruent. Now it’s simply not my priority.

We can acknowledge these particular voices, and yet ignore them if they are not in alignment with what we want to accomplish. I feel a sense of great success when I can contribute. It’s satisfying driving a nice pre-owned vehicle, living mortgage-free and giving to great causes I care about. This is my conviction. However, if I were picked up in a hot red Ferrari, I wouldn’t oppose, I’d absolutely enjoy the ride.

Create your own entrepreneurial path

The point is this, be alert to those who say we “should” be doing this or that. Usually we’re better off not entertaining the voices that dictate orders about work decisions when they aren’t the ones paying our bills or doing the work we do. It’s that simple. Wisdom knows the difference of who we are and what we want– not what others want for us.

Voice #3: Do YOU really have what it takes to do “xyz”?

Says who? The world is full of overcomers. Often we can be our own worst enemy. We can also choose to run with the likes of those who said yes to making things happen despite their circumstances.

We celebrate heroes. The ones who choose to stand up and stand out in spite of challenges.

I say, let’s avoid the voices that say we aren’t right for the part.

 decide to go to work and allow the results to speak

I think we can simply decide to go to work and allow the results to speak.

Meanwhile I rely on stories of inspiration. I remind myself that, a once 15 year-old girl who was shot in the head is now the youngest ever Nobel Peace Prize winner and advocate for female education.

Malala Yousafzai words resonate from a famous speech given at the United Nations. “They thought that the bullets would silence us. But they failed,” she said. “And then, out of that silence came thousands of voices. … Weakness, fear and hopelessness died. Strength, power and courage was born.” As entrepreneurs, may we all take up strength, power and courage in all that we do.

I remind myself that one of the greatest composers of all time became deaf. Being deaf didn’t stop him from creating some of the most beautifully composed music. When Beethoven was asked why he continued to compose music after becoming deaf, his response was, “I knew the best music was still inside of me.” Let’s remember the best music is still inside of us and that we’re equipped to do whatever is in our hearts to do.

Chime in! Tell us, have you ever faced any of these three voices? How did you silence them? Or perhaps there was a different type of voice you shut down that didn’t serve you. What was it and how did you place it on mute?

On Privilege Poverty and Purposeful Profits

Cashed in on some frequent flier miles I’ve been saving for years. Hopped on a plane. First class. Flew over 20+ hours. Enjoyed the amenities. Movies. Slippers. Toothbrushes. Mouthwash. I don’t take this privilege for granted.

In fact, I collect the toothbrushes.

Toothbrushes bring smiles. It’s not just about oral health. It’s about taking sunshine to someone who can’t find one in their neck of the woods or doesn’t have the funds to buy it. It’s humbling.

I’m the traveling entrepreneur. I’ve got a stash of hotel combs, sewing kits, shampoos, lotions, soaps and shower gels from everywhere I go. I must travel light.

I constantly ask myself “what can I bring to show appreciation or open up dialogues with those I meet?” It’s the smallest things that can bring a smile.

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In Myanmar I got a boulder-sized knot in my throat and held back tears as I walked away from a man who told me his story. He and his wife sleep in separate hostels. Their home was in the countryside but the opportunity for work resides in Yangon where they both work 14-15 hours a day. Inflation has made it impossible for them to get ahead. They meet for tea three times a week on a meager $300 USD a month between the two of them. I left them two peppermint tea bags and a small box of chocolates for their next date night. There are times one’s truth is so painful.

The taxi ride to the airport was uncomfortable– and awkwardly comforting as I’m confronted with such privilege. I’m hearing my Mother’s words of wisdom play back from my childhood. It plays over and over.

“To whom much is given, much is required.”

I’m alive and learning. I’m noticing the hundreds of men and women missing limbs in Cambodia. War’s landmines can leave an impression. I asked, Soviat, the Tuk Tuk driver, “how are the Cambodian people doing after the war?” He tells me his mother, at times hears certain noises and still trembles and fears for her life. He shares the metaphor she uses. “I feel I’m the chicken in the coop they are coming to slaughter today.” He shares that it’s a memory that doesn’t release easily.

Far off we turn our attention to songs of redemption. Melodies beckon us as we hike uphill to see a sunset. Bands of limbless, yet lively survivors joined forces with instruments and song. Walking amongst the vast ruins of Angkor Wat I heard hope. I am encouraged by the sound of the human spirit. Rising. Rising. Still– going on– somehow. It profoundly touches me.

Behind the eyes of these gentle souls are stories. In the Western world we fling around the acronym, PSTD. In Cambodia there’s little time for labeling and addressing those deep hurts. To get on with life, you get back to work and make due. It’s survival.

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A day before my husband and I leave, I’m handed a flyer. A beautiful local woman smiles and tells me in English. “Come hear the concert tomorrow night. It’s for a good cause!”

A change agent started this weekly benefit concert. Tourists pretending to be “Tomb Raiders” stop a while and have a chance to contribute.  A Swiss doctor not only oversees the expansion of a Children’s Hospital, now complete with Maternity ward– he also plays the strings for contributions so more people can receive medical attention. The stats show that in 23 years over 13 million outpatients and 1.56 million seriously ill children requiring hospitalization were helped. Thank you, Dr. Beat Richner. You inspire. Play on!

I weave in and out of countries. While the purpose is to enjoy different cultures, people, and travel. I set out to search for something deeper. I’ve found in my adventures that looking for the best holiday is like looking for the perfect spouse. There’s unspoken promises of romance- the effects, the adventures, the desire to feel fully alive.

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I’m conjuring up a lasting romance– the kind that keeps my fire lit long after my travel Visas expire. It’s a romance that fires the flames going beyond tourist trinkets. It’s a deep craving to leave a contribution in the world.

Tomorrow I set out on the last and most anticipated part of this Southeast Asian journey. I’ll end up in Chiang Mai, Thailand. I’ll be in the good company of fellow social entrepreneurs and my most esteemed heroes– those who serve in the trenches of feeding the hungry and rescuing children from human trafficking.

Friends, I am raw with emotion, but full of anticipation.

I know I live a life of privilege and that my first world problems would be warmly welcomed by most of the people I’ve encountered in Cambodia and Myanmar. I’ve concluded that poverty sucks and that it’s something I need to keep in front of me on an ongoing basis so I continue to push through to reach my full potential and life purpose.

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I’ve decided at this point that 50% of the profits I make will go back to causes like Children’s Hunger Fund. So in February when you see my latest course released know if you decide to buy, you will also be making a contribution to your well-being and that of others. You can find out a little more at www.behealthyhappyfit.com

Mahatma Gandhi shared much wisdom when he said,

It’s easy to get carried away by distractions or the unimportant. We’ve all done it. I suppose what I’m encouraging myself along with you is this, consider all that you have. Consider the surplus. Consider your skills. Consider your work, and how you spend your time.

In the comments below, share something with me. Tell me, do you have something in your upcoming plans to get you uncomfortably primed to lay hold of your purpose? Are you already involved in something that keeps your fires a burnin’ for purpose? Let us know so we can learn from you and celebrate with you!

To purposeful profits and more compassion.

How I Stopped Talking and Started Doing

Ever find yourself sitting on the sidelines of life?

That was me about three years ago. Don’t get me wrong. I was in a very good place. We had paid off our home on 28 acres, I was enjoying my life and work, but there still something felt off. It was a cold December and CHF was hosting a special dinner and fundraiser. Speakers from all over flew in to share how hard earned dollars are spent to make a lasting difference.

That night I learned from a powerful woman how CHF played an integral part in helping their mission of rescuing children from human trafficking in Thailand. As I listened I knew this would also play a part in my life mission.

Her words hit the bull’s-eye of my heart. I wept. I rejoiced because there are courageous people who live with such compassion and vision.

I believe we’re given moments when we catch a glimpse or flash into our future. It resonates with our core on such a deep level we can’t even explain it. This was that kind of moment. Sometimes those glimpses and flashes of insights filter down through deep desires we don’t fully know how to articulate – yet.

Here’s what I mean. I always wanted to be a cross between a “world traveling social entrepreneur” and a “Wild West Outdoorswoman”. I know it’s sounds funny, right? Go ahead and laugh. It makes me laugh too. You do understand that holding a PhD gives me the liberty to pontificate such professional creativity. And yes, it’s completely en vogue to do what you enjoy doing. I just happen to love teaching health and entrepreneurship. I hope you love what you do too! If not, send word. Write in the subject line: SOS. 🙂

Of course, it would be easier if I straddled two simple categories like Computer Engineer and Exotic Coin Collector. Oh and on a very serious note, I’m going to run with the title “world traveling Social Entrepreneur” and “Wild West Outdoorswoman” no matter how delightfully odd it seems. Why should we live within self-constraining limits?

If Martha Stewart can hold the titles of convicted felon and DIY food & home decorating maven, then I most certainly have wiggle room. Right?

It excites me to know the world offers up opportunities we’re willing to work for! It may not come on a platter but given time, planning and action we can create a life we love.

I’m living proof that you can rise from a mountain of financial debt and physical woes and embrace financial liberation and a healthy body. Yes! You can gallivant the globe and enjoy your own backyard. Everyone else’s story is NOT your story.

This leads me to the next developments of my story. A little over twelve months I carefully crafted a list of work, play and contribution ideas I wanted to tackle in 2014. One included a rescheduled horse trip to South Dakota. The other included an upcoming trip to Thailand the end of THIS month. Super Yay! And, eeeeeek this is really happening!

Here’s the secret. It’s all in the decision we make.

I decided. Pure and simple. It’s when I stopped talking and started doing. The “doing” didn’t really feel like I was doing so much as it was making baby steps to achieve the bigger goals. Sometimes it was a mind shift. Other times, it was planning and action and more planning and action.

It’s one thing to make a list and talk about it. It’s life changing to actually do something about it.

It’s as if we’re all sailboats out to sea. The decisions we make guide the direction of our sails. Along the way we may sail a bit off course. That’s where much of the adventure lies. Decision-making defines our future.

Making a specific decision helped me stop talking and start doing.

You see up to that point I was okay with thinking or talking about how and who I wanted to be and become. It wasn’t until I made the decision to ride in the mountains nonstop for days on end that the other wonderful circumstances began to happen.

The unexpected part of this decision brought on a fantastical adventure. My enthusiasm even got the buy in and encouragement from many. My husband supported me in this goal. Dear Mexican business friends supported me. It felt incredible because the only way to reach this goal was to obtain hours in the saddle. And so it became a fairy-tale like Wild West adventure.

I rode new trails with my husband and friends around the mountains, old haciendas, and sugar cane fields. This of course, fed into my Wild West theme. It’s as if the world was conspiring with me to enjoy the trip of a lifetime. Mostly I try to contain my joy unspeakable because I couldn’t explain why it’s meant so much –but that’s perhaps for another time or when my new webdesign and copy comes out.
How to get the motivation to stop talking and start doing.

Here’s the point, I rode four days with my friend, Liz who happens to be the female version of John Wayne. We rode hours at a time breathing in the beauty, soaking up the visual feast of Fall’s foliage, and sounds of babbling brooks. On the last day, we rode up to Mount Rushmore weaving in and out of the mountains’ fallen trees. I’m grateful for the moments when God brings schedules, weather and family timing together so life can be thoroughly enjoyed– outdoors…on the back of a horse.

I benefitted so much from taking the South Dakota riding trip in ways I am still counting. It taught me that making a powerful a decision can provide endless possibilities. It grew the courage I needed to say yes to this upcoming “Wild East” adventure.

And now I look forward to sharing with you what the next decision offers up. How working, playing and contributing while I’m on the road expands new horizons and nourishes my desire to hold up to the world traveling social entrepreneur title. I’ll be sharing some insights with you as I continue to do that which I’ve only talked about and am now seizing.

Enough about me, how about you? Tell me in the comments below, has there been a decision you’ve made that really set things in motion for you?

Is there a decision you realized you need to make now so you can stop talking and start doing?

Share with us!

Lessons from the Puerto Rican Santa

True Story. My husband and I are currently hanging out in Puerto Rico. We’ve just come off the small, yet peaceful island of Vieques. We chose to stay one night in San Juan to pick up a rental car.

We waltz out of the elevator to ask Jesus at the front desk to recommend some tasty vittles closeby. Los Pinos (The Pines) is the winner where we stumble upon Puerto Rican Santa. No, really. He was sitting next to us. He was wearing a black t-shirt and shorts, drinking java.

Now before you begin doubting the validity of my story, I have photos because I know you are thinking he’s not the type to hang out in Puerto Rico wearing flip flops.

Behold!

Lessons from a Puerto Rican Santa

And guess what? We invite Santa to join us for breakfast. He agrees and soon “Mrs. Claus” joins us from a short outside shopping detour. But it doesn’t stop there. We ask the waitress to allow us to pick up the tab. Seriously, how can one skip out on picking up the tab for such dignitaries.

Santa refused. He insisted on paying the bill. However, he invited us to join him for the day agreeing that we could actually buy lunch. Deal.

As an entrepreneur I’m always looking for ways to learn creatively.

The perfect opportunity presented itself. I was given the chance to see the world from Santa’s eyes and the eyes of children both big and small.

1) Santa’s 80/20 rule

Santa explained the rules of percentages. “Twenty percent have predetermined how they feel about me based on my appearance and how they feel about Santa.”

“Ten percent will completely dislike me. Ten percent will love me unconditionally. Eighty percent is where my opportunity lies to impact those who are undecided with a positive message. Focus on those who you can serve the most.”

2) Know your private mission behind the public mission

Me and Santa had some fairly deep philosophical discussions. He shared with me that Christmas wasn’t about him. “The purpose of Christmas is all about giving. It’s a celebration of the birth of Christ, Savior of the world, the greatest gift of all.” Santa gave me a sermon over lunch.

Santa’s clear that his public mission is to love on people, share happiness and promote the wonder and spirit of Christmas year round. Santa’s private mission is to empower both children and parents in creating healthier bonds by teaching good principles. Specifically, he wants to promote that there is goodness, hope and a bright future for all.

Puerto Rican Santa

3) Set an example to follow

Puerto Rican Santa gets lots of business propositions. He’s invited to pose with the rich and famous, the poor and downtrodden, kids of all ages. He’s also invited to drink a rum and coke. To uphold his outstanding image, he bypasses things like alcohol and cigarettes– it’s a message that must be congruent for children. When given the opportunity, I’m going to challenge Santa on his sugar intake. 🙂

On side note, Santa’s not a Cookie Monster, he’s an aficionado of cream-filled donuts. I’d like to throw out a challenge. Let’s offer him more appropriate and healthy delicacies like apples, pomegranate, bananas, and pineapple, shall we?

4) Don’t let age become a cage

Throughout the day it was noticeable– some bypassed a smile or free photo op with Santa even when encouraged by the man himself. After a while some embraced their inner child again and took a Santa selfie. They walked away with a smile on their face. Those who skipped out walked away shaking their head. It seemed they were caged in with what is and isn’t okay.

You can tell we big kids stood next to Puerto Rican Santa for our golden opportunity.

Paige and Damiel Hunter with the Puerto Rican Santa

The big take away around age is what our society or our personal thoughts deem “appropriate” and “inappropriate”. Forget you’re too old for sky diving. You are too young to be wise.

Maybe it’s time to let loose a little– maybe it’s time to let more smiles out. Perhaps it time to let our conditioning be reconditioned so joy is shared with other fellow humans.

5) Let your signature phrase light the way to your mission

Santa’s well known for his “Ho Ho Ho! Merry Christmas!” It’s his happy go-lucky tag line. Bobby McFerrin’s tagline is “Don’t worry, be happy.”
Mother Teresa shared, “If you judge people, you have no time to love them.”

So what’s our signature “Ho, Ho, Ho?” I’m currently running with… this little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine.

Do me a favor. In the comments below tell me what your signature phrase is or if you’ve had any great lessons you’ve learned this holiday season. We’d love to read about it.

In the meantime, have yourself a Merry little Christmas.