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How taking one action can alter everything…

and 5 simple steps to uncover it

I’ll never forget the day I wanted to yank my hair out and ask for a refund. It seemed overly simplistic. We were teamed up and tasked to pinpoint the one action that can alter everything. Or rather, come face-to-face with, “what’s stopping me from being my best?” If I could capture this, then I could identify the one action that substantially creates progress in my life.

B-I-N-G-O!

She got it. She really got it. Me, not so much.

Allow me to explain. Ten years ago I was attending a leadership conference when Sally (not her real name of course) and I were paired up as each others’  “camp buddy.”

During an outside break, we were to share what the one action we’d take over the next 6 weeks to reach new goals. Sally’s eyes filled up with big crocodile tears. With deep conviction she said,  “I know what I’m supposed to do. From now on I’m going to set my alarm for 7:00 a.m. and that’s it. This will transform everything. It’s decided.”

I was surprised and queried, “So it’s decided?”

I thought,  “So an alarm for 7:00, huh? Why not 6:52 or 7:03?” Sally had clearly set her intention and I felt it my duty to support her. Still befuddled by her conclusion I wondered how setting an alarm clock could seriously be the one action that accelerates results.

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In spite of my disdain for annoying alarm clocks, something snapped and I understood what she meant. Of course, this epiphany happened when Sally explained a simple five-step strategy that uncovered the one action that we could take to power through to our goals.

1) Identify the lie/s.

2) Slam the door on excuses.

3) Poof! The one life-altering action appears!

4) Tell it, do it, and walk with accountability.

5) Celebrate the results.

This was not Sally’s first rodeo! (not literally, that’s Texan for she’s no novice) She was on a mission. I asked her to elaborate so I too could move past anything stopping me. Sally confided that she was re-auditing the leadership course because it had proven to be super beneficial. She explained where her mental condition had been a few years back as she walked me through the five steps that can propel us to that one trigger action that creates a lasting domino effect.

First, Sally exposed the lies. She believed she could never be a healthy size 8 again. She believed she didn’t have time to take care of herself by preparing nutritious meals or working out 3-4 times a week. Sally explained that the feeling of overwhelm and fitting into a size 16 left her stuck in the mud.

Second, she decided to slam the door on the excuses and devise a plan instead. Sally realized she made choices based solely on convenience rather than substance. She took charge, reached out to a neighbor friend for support. Together they agreed to start walking 3 times a week for 45 minutes. Sally also chose to shop for groceries on Friday so she could plan out and prepare meals during the weekend. These two choices really helped her get after two of her biggest excuses.

Third, Sally took on her one big action she KNEW would change everything. She pinpointed where things had gone awry. She recognized that shortly after her best friend’s fatal car accident she fell victim to sugar and processed carbs. It was understandable. Sugar had become her solace and comfort. Sally shared that it too, had also be her “socially-acceptable crack”. A radical choice to cut out sugar from her diet all together ensued. She was convinced this one action would give her the freedom she wanted– and it did.

Fourth, Sally told her immediate family and close circle of friends what she was up to. She did so to receive support, and frankly, there were times that she was challenged by friendly sabotage. However, there were those who rallied around her efforts, inciting accountability.

Fifth, when Sally hit her goal she booked a weekend getaway to the beach with her husband. She commissioned him to help her pick out two great outfits; one for a special dinner and another for pictures that would be taken to celebrate their upcoming 10-year anniversary. She took this opportunity to whip out her cell phone and show me her favorite photos of that day.

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Sally’s one decision brought about desired results of health and confidence. What’s more is that this one decision to nix sugar and processed carbs brought about a tremendous friendship with her walking partner. The results didn’t stop there. She shared with me that her marriage had vastly improved because she no longer craved what made her body feel bad. Instead, she chose to work on the deeper issues and in time, new patterns of health, acceptance and joy took the once dark place.

I’m about to reconnect with Sally on a monthly call. I look forward to hearing how setting an alarm at 7:00 a.m. continues to drastically transform her life.

While I’m still not a fan of alarm clocks, I did decide one the one action I’d take to change everything. I chose to give up my night owl status. Now my one action of hitting the hay earlier is making all the difference in the world. Who knew? Bedtime at 10:30 sets my world in motion, my mind at ease and my goals on the fast track.

Over to you!

Are you up to taking that one action that can create the remarkable results you crave as an entrepreneur or health adventurer? If so, tell us in the comments below. We’ll be happy to cheer you on as you pick up more lift!

Learn 3 Business Tips from 2 Wise Horses and 1 Smart Ass

Before you say “neigh” to the idea of accepting business tips from friendly equine, consider the concept of “Edutainment”. At the intersection of education and entertainment forces come together to make your life enjoyable. Keep in mind, wisdom can be found in some of the most unceremonious of places. I’ve never personally sought out business advice from animals. However, as of late, business tips have been flowing while I’m spending time with these mighty mentors. Stay with me, will ya?

1) Our Leadership Affects Actions

We’ve all heard about the proverbial carrot or stick motivators. I’ve been experiencing this first hand as I work two horses in our round pen. There’s many lessons these two wises horses are sharing. Let’s focus on the greatest current standouts. My leadership and energy affects their trust. Their past experiences precondition certain reactions. It’s my responsibility to guide us toward a happy desired outcome.

Learn business tips from a horse

I want to liken the two horse to possible clients or employees. Let’s take Bear for example. He was born on the ranch property. We met the day he was born. I’ve fed, cared for and loved him. When I suggest he do something, he does it with the desire to please. My leadership has been established because of a developed relationship. He’s grown to know, like and trust me. When we get into the ring he’s ready to conduct “business”. After business we revel in the accomplishment– usually with snuggles and extra scratches.

Then there’s Bentley. He’s a sturdy, no-nonsense horse. He likes to move his feet. He works because he’s super smart, came into my life well-trained and is task-oriented. Don’t let him fool you though, he’s highly inclined toward grazing on grass. If I don’t lead him, he will lead me. In the round pen he’s taught me to anticipate what to do next, how to do it, and to do it well.

I must be consistent in my messaging with Bentley. I cannot slack off. He’s really an incredible consultant! Good clients or employees do just that. Like Bentley, they keep us on our toes. Their abilities and direction causes us to rise up and become better. As we stay tuned into developing our own skills, character and vision, we gain their respect. It may take some time to establish this respect, yet I believe it’s worth it.

Learn business tips from a horse

2) Dedication and patience bring satisfaction

In the round pen, skill and understanding is acquired. It doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time for the trainer and the horse to grasp the work. It requires a step-by-step process.

At times it is clumsy. What’s not working well is magnified in the round pen. When corrections are made and things are running smoothly there’s a sense of satisfaction. It may not be total success, but there’s satisfaction in the progress.

The concept rings true in business. Although we have yet to experience a complete windfall of cash flow we can smile about gaining traction. This satisfaction gives us the drive to stay dedicated to the work. Patience and personal development blossoms as we continue to grow our skill. Two very wise horses have taught me that it’s better to focus on gratifying work rather than instant gratification.

As an entrepreneur I’ve learned to stay the course until breakthrough happens. I’ve learned to lean in and listen to what my customers need, want or desire. I don’t always hit the nail on the head. In fact, sometime I miss it all together. What I have come to relish is that the process– the pursuit of happiness is as delightful as listening to thundering hooves racing across a wild open field.

3) The Looking Zone

Looking Zone business tips from Dr Paige Hunter

We have a real character who lives on the ranch. He’s a miniature rescue donkey. We named him Don Quixote after Spanish author, Miguel’s Cervantes’ famous book, Don Quixote de La Mancha.

You see the character in this book is much like our own donkey. He doesn’t necessarily see the world for what it is. He prefers to pine away for taller, unreachable mares. He prefers to imagine that he is living out a knightly story when in fact he’s a witty, yet wise simpleton. Suffice it to say I admire his zest of adventure.

At times, Don Quixote comes across as finicky and non-committal. Let me explain. Recently we needed to change his food because our local feed store explained the food we had been serving him had recently come into question. Immediately we changed the food to protect our noble little steed.

Stubbornly, he rejected the change. He dug his hooves in and backed away from higher quality food all because it looked and smelled different. At first I was furious with little ingrate but then I looked for the lesson. 🙂

What this vertically challenged wise ass taught me is that he was not in the looking zone. He wasn’t ready for change. And so he munched on knee high sweet grass for five days straight. For five days he sulked and wagged his sorry little tail like Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh. He wanted different results but wasn’t ready to take the risk on trying something different.

On the sixth day Don Quixote approached the fence braying as I began feeding the horses. He was looking through the fence. He was telling me “I’m NOW in the looking zone.” I interpreted that he’d decided to try out his new grains and minerals. And what do you know? He seized the opportunity. He even gave the happy tail wave of approval.

Timing is everything!

Don Quixote leaves us with an insightful business tip. Understand some customers simply aren’t in the looking zone– yet. Perhaps it’s because they are resistant or challenged with change. Perhaps they are just needing to work up their appetite for a little something different. The important tip is to be consistent with what you are offering. We never know when the offer will be enthusiastically accepted.

Business tips from Donkey and Dr Paige

What’s on your mind? In the comments below share with us any excellent business tips you’ve received– from man, woman or beast. 🙂